Rails - Feb 2006 - self referential habtm using join tables

All:

I have been working on making a self-referential habtm relationship
that uses a join model because I want to store info about the
relationship. I have been using two sections from Chad Fowler''s
"Rails
Recipes" as a guide, "Self-referential Many-to-Many
Relationships" and
"Many to Many Relationships Where the Relationship Itself has Data".
So far I have had little luck. Here is what I have that works a
little, but not really:

Migrations:

create_table "users" do |t|
    t.column "name", :string
    t.column "email", :string
end

create_table "friends" do |t|
      t.column "user_id", :integer
      t.column "acquaintance_id", :integer
      t.column "approved", :integer
end

Models:

class Friend < ActiveRecord::Base
  belongs_to :users
  belongs_to :friends
end

class User < ActiveRecord::Base
  has_many :friends
  has_many :acquaintances, :through => :friends,
    :class_name => "User"
end

I can''t figure out those declarations to get it to work like a join
model. With that setup, I add a record to the friends table that has
the attributes I want (so I can see if I can access the info
correctly) - user_id = 1 acquaintance_id = 2 approved = 0
>> u1 = User.find(1)
=> #<User:0x23754e4 @attributes={"name"=>"Randy",
"id"=>"1",
"email"=>"x@altorg.com"}>
>> u1.acquaintances
=> [#<User:0x23722a8 @attributes={"name"=>"Randy",
"id"=>"1",
"email"=>"x@altorg.com"}>]

and uses the following sql:

SELECT users.* FROM friends, users WHERE (users.id = friends.user_id
AND friends.user_id = 1) which is close to what I want, but I believe
it should be the following:

SELECT users.* FROM friends, users WHERE (users.id friends.acquaintance_id AND
friends.user_id = 1)

now I delete that record to try to create that row using ruby
>> u1 = User.find(1)
=> #<User:0x23754e4 @attributes={"name"=>"Randy",
"id"=>"1",
"email"=>"x@altorg.com"}>
>> u2 = User.find(2)
=> #<User:0x2372cbc @attributes={"name"=>"Rebecca",
"id"=>"2",
"email"=>"something@gmail.com"}>
>> friend = Friend.create(:approved => 0)
=> #<Friend:0x23700ac @attributes={"id"=>9,
"approved"=>0,
"acquaintance_id"=>nil, "user_id"=>nil},
@errors=#<ActiveRecord::Errors:0x236e57c @errors={},
@base=#<Friend:0x23700ac ...>>,
@new_record=false>
>> u1.friends << friend
=> [#<Friend:0x23700ac @attributes={"id"=>9,
"approved"=>0,
"acquaintance_id"=>nil, "user_id"=>1},
@errors=#<ActiveRecord::Errors:0x236e57c @errors={},
@base=#<Friend:0x23700ac ...>>,
@new_record=false>]
>> u2.friends << friend
=> [#<Friend:0x23700ac @attributes={"id"=>9,
"approved"=>0,
"acquaintance_id"=>nil, "user_id"=>2},
@errors=#<ActiveRecord::Errors:0x236e57c @errors={},
@base=#<Friend:0x23700ac ...>>, @new_record=false>]

Here is what I think the problem is. with a normal join model, there
are two different types of objects being joined, ie readers and
magazines (to steal the example). With what I am doing, both u1 and u2
are User objects, making it so that user_id is always set, but enver
acquaintance_id. I tried setting association_foreign_key =>
"acquaintance_id" and foreign_key => "user_id", but that
doesn''t work.
I have been trying to work this out but have had zero success. At leat
I think I know what the problem is, but I can''t figure out the
solution.

One thing I was thinking is maybe making an Acquaintance model that
inherits from User so that they are two different object types, but I
don''t know if that is possible or if that is a good way to do it.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Thank you!
--
Randy Schmidt
x@altorg.com
267.334.6833