Maybe I'm an idiot and this is elementary to everyone but me. Maybe it's not a function of asterisk. It's driving me nuts. When I'm on a call and another one comes in for me, in general I *don't* want to put the current call on hold and pick up; I almost always want to drop the current call ("Talk to you later. I've got another call.") and pick up the other one. But if I flash, asterisk puts the call on hold. If I hang up and let it ring, oftentimes by the time a ring or two has gone by the second caller has been sent to voicemail, and I don't think I can barge on voicemail. One ring doesn't appear to behave any differently than a flash. What is the way to do this? Is it an RTFM that I have missed? Thanks. B.