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...es a list of all the member''s buddies atm) josh $ m.buddies_waiting_for_acceptance # should give an array of only the buddies that I didn''t accept yet josh $ m.buddies_you_dont_accept # should give an array of buddies of whom you don''t want to be added as buddy josh $ m.buddies_that_dont_accept_you # should give an array of buddies that don''t accept you as buddy I want to have the following code numbers in the accepted field: 0 - waiting for acceptance 1 - accepted 2 - not accepted But now how can i realize this? Should I create again HABTM dependencies using the :conditions key...