On Wed, Jun 28, 2017 at 11:53 PM, Peter Lawrence via llvm-dev < llvm-dev at lists.llvm.org> wrote:> Philip, > email responses are varied, some say what you do, but > others say give the guys a chance and listen to what he has to say. > > I say that I have a mild personality disorder such that I can’t say > things in politically correct style, and that this is a disability that I > have had for the last third of my adult life. >This is 100% not about political correctness. It's about the repeated lack of empathy and understanding. You believe the things you are saying are somehow right, and the reason others disengage is because they can't handle the rightness. This is your repeated quip about about others have an emotional reaction to your rightness. As mentioned repeatedly now, the reason they are disengaging, is, bluntly, they think you are both wrong and and asshole. -------------- next part -------------- An HTML attachment was scrubbed... URL: <http://lists.llvm.org/pipermail/llvm-dev/attachments/20170629/e14e3033/attachment-0001.html>
On Thu, Jun 29, 2017 at 10:11 PM, Daniel Berlin via llvm-dev < llvm-dev at lists.llvm.org> wrote:> > On Wed, Jun 28, 2017 at 11:53 PM, Peter Lawrence via llvm-dev < > llvm-dev at lists.llvm.org> wrote: > >> Philip, >> email responses are varied, some say what you do, but >> others say give the guys a chance and listen to what he has to say. >> >> I say that I have a mild personality disorder such that I can’t say >> things in politically correct style, and that this is a disability that I >> have had for the last third of my adult life. >> > > This is 100% not about political correctness. > > It's about the repeated lack of empathy and understanding. > You believe the things you are saying are somehow right, and the reason > others disengage is because they can't handle the rightness. > > This is your repeated quip about about others have an emotional reaction > to your rightness. > > As mentioned repeatedly now, the reason they are disengaging, is, bluntly, > they think you are both wrong and and asshole. >Yo.. if I can't get away with both directly insulting others and using profanity.. you can't either.. Lets be fair.. Take it offlist if you want to attack someone (justly or not) -------------- next part -------------- An HTML attachment was scrubbed... URL: <http://lists.llvm.org/pipermail/llvm-dev/attachments/20170629/381fd38a/attachment.html>
Sorry, thought I sent that privately On Thu, Jun 29, 2017, 7:19 AM C Bergström <cbergstrom at pathscale.com> wrote:> On Thu, Jun 29, 2017 at 10:11 PM, Daniel Berlin via llvm-dev < > llvm-dev at lists.llvm.org> wrote: > >> >> On Wed, Jun 28, 2017 at 11:53 PM, Peter Lawrence via llvm-dev < >> llvm-dev at lists.llvm.org> wrote: >> >>> Philip, >>> email responses are varied, some say what you do, but >>> others say give the guys a chance and listen to what he has to say. >>> >>> I say that I have a mild personality disorder such that I can’t say >>> things in politically correct style, and that this is a disability that I >>> have had for the last third of my adult life. >>> >> >> This is 100% not about political correctness. >> >> It's about the repeated lack of empathy and understanding. >> You believe the things you are saying are somehow right, and the reason >> others disengage is because they can't handle the rightness. >> >> This is your repeated quip about about others have an emotional reaction >> to your rightness. >> >> As mentioned repeatedly now, the reason they are disengaging, is, >> bluntly, they think you are both wrong and and asshole. >> > > Yo.. if I can't get away with both directly insulting others and using > profanity.. you can't either.. Lets be fair.. Take it offlist if you want > to attack someone (justly or not) >-------------- next part -------------- An HTML attachment was scrubbed... URL: <http://lists.llvm.org/pipermail/llvm-dev/attachments/20170629/56fe67e5/attachment.html>